Introduction
Merriam-Webster defines “friendship” as the state of being friends. But the depth and true meaning of different types of friendships go far beyond this simple definition.
As the saying goes, “If you are lucky enough to find a weirdo, never let them go.” Let’s explore the various types of friends we encounter in life and how each plays an essential role in shaping who we are.
What is Friendship?
Life is a roller coaster ride for all of us, and it’s the healing touch of friendship that makes the journey smoother. While we don’t choose our parents or relatives, we do have the liberty to choose our friends. And we decide how long to maintain those friendships. Friendship is a space where the mind is free from judgment, and the heart is full of care and concern without expecting anything in return. That said, I’ve found that we all have a few types of friends in our lives, each playing a crucial role in our growth and well-being.
THE TYPES OF FRIENDS
The Life-Longer
These friends stick with you throughout your life, through thick and thin. They may not always be physically close, but the bond you share is unbreakable. Every time you reconnect, it feels like no time has passed. With these friends, there’s no judgment and no fear—you can just be yourself.
I’ve been fortunate to have a few such friends. I remember one friend I met in my college hostel. Our friendship began with a fight over a mosquito net—I felt hot inside it, while she was adamant about using it. We are complete opposites! Yet, even today, when I pick up the phone and talk to her, it feels like nothing has changed.
The Mom/Dad/Big Brother
Some friends are so caring that they feel like a second mom, dad, or big brother. They always try to protect you and may even keep a tab on your boyfriends. Sometimes, they’ll even decide whether you should make new friends.
I’ve been lucky to have such friends in my life. One of them used to bring extra food every day so I could have some. How thoughtful and wonderful!
The Weeping Shoulder
We all need that one friend who provides a shoulder to cry on when things go wrong. There are times when your thoughts are in turmoil, and you’re not comfortable sharing them with your family. Friends who listen without bias and offer guidance are invaluable at these moments. I’m sure we’ve all gone through times when a friend has meant more to us than family.
The Punching Bag
We all need a punching bag to vent our frustrations. These friends listen to your rants without offering advice. Their main goal is to help you feel better by letting you unload. We encounter such friends at different stages of life:
- School: Frustrations with studies, teachers, parents
- College: Frustrations with studies, girlfriends/boyfriends
- Office: Frustrations with managers and office politics
The list goes on…
The Hangout Buddy
There are friends with whom you share common interests or hobbies, or who are simply fun to hang out with because of their sense of humor. These friends are like blessings from heaven, instantly lifting your mood and lightening your day. They are your stress busters and laughter pills.
The Benefits of Friendships
Friendships offer numerous benefits and help us lead happier lives. Here are some of the positive effects of friendships:
- Reduced stress
- Increased happiness
- Higher life satisfaction
- Higher self-confidence
- Improved problem-solving abilities
So, cherish all the friends you have in life because, as the saying goes, “No friendship is an accident,” and “Har ek friend zaruri hota hai!”
By Manjusha Dutta
Manjusha Dutta is a Senior Manager with a Software Insurance organization. A movie buff and an amateur dancer, she rocks in the videos that she creates for her YouTube channel. She can be reached at manjushadutta@gmail.com.
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